WHY

I'm sorry but when did it become normal to feel bad? Like, ALWAYS bad? Or, I think the better word is SHAMED

LIST OF OMG THINGS I DONT DO THAT (apparently) ALL GOOD PEOPLE DO

1. Yoga (I love your "yogi" lives, but its not realistic for some people. I've tried and NO I don't bend that way anymore…. and the more you tell me its all in my head the more I want to punch you in yours)

2. That brings me to fitness shaming…. I'm glad that you wake up, do yoga and then run 10 miles… but guess what, I can't do that because I'm a single mom…. If I hear one of you over zealous gym junkies tell me there are no excuses ONE MORE TIME I will treadmill across your face

3. Juice junkies… Really? I drink coffee, milk and water…. And I'm doing pretty good… Stop acting super superior over this months "cleanse"

4. Pinterest, can just go to hell with all the terrible things I attempted from reading recipes, ideas and projects on that website… My truth is, you're not a perfect mom because you created personalized lollipops of everyone at your child birthday, but because you take a moment to appreciate their birthday and get dirty and have fun with them instead

5. There is NO such thing as a perfect mom or perfect person for that matter…. sometimes people, are just people who do the best they can with what they have… We all have been dealt cards that are either wonderful and grand (whether you work hard or get lucky enough to have someone work hard for you), or get dealt lesser hands that you're still trying to work through…. Don't shame, hate or persecute kind people because they aren't up to what you think is "better"

The world is full of caring, kind and loving people… Some people are victim of circumstance… sometimes we love the wrong people, or don't have love for the right people…. But outside of anyones life, we don't get to judge..

Please, just be nice…. Sometimes being nice or deciding to be unkind can make or break someone…

With Love
SaraH